Wrestle God For The Blessing
Genesis 32:24-26 (NKJV) — ""Then Jacob was left alone; and a Man wrestled with him until the breaking of day. Now when He saw that He did not prevail against him, He touched the socket of his hip; and the socket of Jacob's hip was out of joint as He wrestled with him. And He said, 'Let Me go, for the day breaks.' But he said, 'I will not let You go unless You bless me!'""
There are things God releases only in the wrestling. Not because He is withholding them to be cruel, but because some blessings are only given to people who have decided they want them badly enough to stay in the fight.